Why Feeling “Bad” Repels What You Really Want

What if you could get what you want without feeling bad?

It might sound too good to be true, but it’s possible.

In fact, feeling bad is often the reason we don’t get what we want.

When we feel bad, we push away the very things we desire.

So how can you start getting what you want without feeling bad?

It starts by understanding why feeling bad repels what you want.

Stay tuned for three tips on how to achieve this!

1. Do I accept what is happening to me now?

2. Am I desperately trying to achieve my goal?

3. What am I focusing on right now?

Let’s dig into it.

Why do I have a bad feeling about what I want to manifest?

Many people believe that if they focus hard enough on what they want, they can manifest it into reality. However, sometimes what we want isn’t actually what’s best for us.

Some people hear they intuition  and the voice of what they want and that’s enough for them.

However, others will then think: “But why don’t I feel motivated to do what I need to do?

I’m not feeling good about it! If this is really what’s best for me, why don’t I feel like doing it?

So how do you know when you should go ahead and manifest something, and when you should avoid it?

Here are a few things to keep in mind.

What you want is not always what you get

For example, when it comes to weight loss, many people are focused on losing the most amount of weight in the shortest period of time so they can look good for an upcoming event. This desire leads them to take extreme measures that often backfire and result in even more body fat.

If you feel “bad” about not having what you want, you risk losing it all together.

Why is that?

It has to do with ‘acceptance’.

Do you accept the current situation in your life?

Some people can’t accept what is happening to them now.

• They can’t stand being broke
• They can’t stand being alone
• They can’t stand the job they hate

Most of us naturally want to rebel against it

It’s a common reaction.

So what happens?

They get even more stuck.

They ‘resist’ the current situation so much that they create major resistance in their life.

When you are resisting, it is like you are trying to push against a brick wall and there is no give at all.

Being in this state of mind is reason they feel “bad” about not having what they want.

And I can relate to wanting more stuff. It feels terrible when you don’t have money to buy the essentials in life.

What happens to your manifesting in this state of mind?

Secondly, it’s not good for your manifesting to be grumpy. Because in that grumpy state you repel the actual thing you want.

You may become a “negative magnet”.

And trust me, you don’t want to become a negative magnet.

Start working on your acceptance and staying a positive magnet.

Here’s how to fix that:

Be grateful for what you have right now

Dream big and become a DreamMaker

Do your manifesting rituals (the secret)

Stay patient and avoid feeling desperate

As you start to relax into it, you get into sync and when you do that, the universe delivers the goods to you.

To give a broader understanding of this concept.

The person who complains about how bad it is, actually manifests the bad thing instead of what they want.

Trust this process and let it guide you.

That’s how you can improve your life, fast.

Dare to dream. We’ll get you there.

• Petri, “The Alchemist”