Why bad things happen to good people.
It’s a reality that we have to learn to accept.
But it doesn’t have to be a final or insurmountable fate.
Bad things can happen to good people, but they needn’t keep happening.
And the first step in making sure bad things stop happening is accepting that they do happen—and then understanding why.
Why do bad things happen to good people?
It’s one of the most frequently asked questions from spiritual seekers.
It’s an exciting reveal about human psychology.
People want to better understand why their life is the way it is and if they can do anything to manifest something and produce a better life for themselves.
If you are a good person, you shouldn’t be allowed to endure bad experiences.
It is the rationale of people who question the trials and tribulations.
They can’t comprehend not having life go as they would like it to. They view it as unfair to be given trouble when all that is wanted is peace and prosperity.
My take on this is:
You attract all the positive and negative stuff in your life.
It is not random or by chance.
A great deal of the time, bad things happen to people when they transition to something new. They are clearing out all of the old before they move forward.
Nothing will remain behind, so it gets thrown out the door with the trash.
No clear definition of why bad things happen to good people
What must be made known is that there is no clear definition of good and bad for anything and everything.
We all have our definitions of good and evil based on our experiences, learning, and morality. Most of the time, what we label or perceive as good or bad is our personal bias.
Therefore, what is good to you may not necessarily be suitable to your friend, colleague, or others.
Unless something is written or established in society very clearly as good or bad, we don’t accept ambiguous circumstances.
The Incomprehensible truth is that life is not fair
In our everyday life, we see a lot of examples where we know someone who is a perfect friend, colleague, or family member, but he/she has experienced a terrible situation in their life.
Knowing about these dire circumstances makes us very uncomfortable, sad, or shocked.
We cannot comprehend how such a negative situation happened to this lovely man/woman.
The truth is that life is not fair.
We believe and want to happen in our lives consistently is nothing more than wishes.
You can hope for the most extraordinary life possible by raising your vibration, but this hope is nothing more than a fantasy state that you live within when you want to escape the reality of your current life.
What does all this hoping and wishing produce for you? Nothing but angst and frustration because you can’t live within that fantasy world. You build up all this anticipation, only to be let down by your inability to live within that life you desire.
So for all this hopping and wishing, all you do is make yourself more miserable.
And when misery is your constant state of thinking, you perpetuate the unfortunate circumstances that you encounter in life.
What is the cause of bad Circumstances
The fact that good or bad things happen in your life is due to the law of attraction.
Your thoughts are a manifestation of your reality, which is developed through your thoughts and your actions.
The “good” tend to be timid and meek – believing that they will receive what is meant for them when it is the right time.
But when is the right time?
The good tends to deny ambition because they believe it is a bad quality. The purpose is seen as being greedy – ungrateful for what you have in your life.
But isn’t a “wait and see” mindset just as bad a quality? Instead of actively going after what they desire, the excellent wait for their desires appears in their lives.
Opportunity doesn’t just appear; it must be pursued with an undeterred focus. If you don’t position yourself to receive good fortune, then it will never occur in your life.
You will notice that the good tend to shun the pleasure of abundance in public, but in private, they secretly desire for their life to be filled with abundance. These conflicting thoughts repel the ability for good things to occur in your life. This is because your confused thoughts create confused energy, and confusing energy attracts negativity rather than positivity.
You might see someone who you believe is bad, and they always seem to be moving forward in life – enjoying all the pleasures the world has to offer.
Why are they given so much while you are given so little?
First, you must understand that what you believe, good and evil may not necessarily be the truth.
We are all made up of both good and bad qualities. How we function in society is based on our experiences and the environment that shaped our thought processes.
Some people may have had to do things you consider to be bad in order to survive.
Life places us all in different circumstances that require us to perform in a certain manner in order to ensure that we make it through the day, week, month, or year. The judgment of good or bad should be held until you completely understand someone’s experience within life.
Now on to the question that was posed, why are bad people given so much while good people are given so little?
Life is all about positioning
If you don’t understand how to think and act to attract good energy that transforms into good circumstances, you will never be able to experience a good life consistently.
- It is not harmful to be aggressive, bold, and confident.
- These qualities are how you enable sound to come into your life.
- It is like the statement; a closed mouth doesn’t get fed.
- Well, a silent person gets overlooked for good opportunities.
Life is a cycle of good and bad
Life never operates as a constant cycle.
We all experience both good and bad periods within our life. Some experience more good or bad thanks others.
What matters is how you react when dealing with either good or bad experiences.
If you look at life as a state of momentary experiences, you will continually work to ensure that your experiences are more good than bad.
People make the mistake of being content in life – believing that their life as-is will remain constant. People experiencing bad circumstances will stay so because they aren’t doing anything to change their lives around.
People sharing good in life may change their favored position because they don’t believe positioning is any longer required for their life – they have made it.
Life will throw you through the fire when least expected and bring you down while bringing someone else up. Nothing in life is guaranteed, so never make the mistake of assuming otherwise.
Handling the bad circumstances
When you are experiencing bad circumstances, the best thing to do is keep pressing forward.
When you dwell in negativity, you extend its stay in your life.
Beyond thinking positively, you have to implement positive behavior that attracts positive energy.
Learn to undo a negative manifestation here.
You’re not a victim.
Just being a good person is not enough.
You can be a good person to the outside world but still think negatively, producing bad situations in your life.
You make your luck. It’s up to you to determine what kind of luck it will be and how long it’ll last, and no one else.
Some people get used to bad luck and think it’s normal, but that doesn’t make it right.
Badness can bring on more badness. If you allow your circumstances to dictate your attitude, you’ll only continue the cycle of negativity in your life.
Sometimes circumstances may be out of our control, but how we perceive it determines the outcome.
We have control over our minds and what we think about.
I know how it feels to be in a bad situation, and you feel like there is nothing that can change your life for the better. I taught myself that anyone could take any bad situation and make it good.
Ultimately, misery dwells where it is welcomed.
You are the cause of any effect that occurs in your life.