I’ve always said that every person should stay positive no matter what.
It's easier said than done to stay positive.
Sometimes the storm of challenges come pushing you to the corner.
At those times, remaining positive that something good can come out of whatever situation you are going through becomes difficult.
If you find yourself in such a situation, you need to realize that you have the power to create your own reality where you can look at everything the way you want to see it.
You can use this power to create a positive life and once you do, you are going to attract abundance.
Therefore, if you want to be successful at your job, have a happy relationship, become a more positive person or have a life that is full of love and happiness, then you need to focus on being positive.
Staying Optimistic No Matter What
The worst thing about negative feelings is that they can be overwhelming and hard to control.
These kinds of feelings result in negativity.
You end up being dissatisfied, disoriented, and feeling defeated.
Once in a while, everyone passes through difficult situations, however, you can use the power you possess inside you to change your negativity into positivity.
What sets you apart is not the intensity of the problem but how well you handle the difficult situation. If you are wondering how to try the following tips to help you remain positive no matter how hard a situation looks.
Always Look at the Bigger Picture
When something bad happens, your first reaction is getting shocked and especially it was unexpected. Then it is followed by feeling let down and rejected which easily build up and start feeling pain. Instead of entertaining those feeling, choose to move on and get over the bad moment.
This at first can sound like an impossible thing to do considering pain usually triggers fear.
When experiencing this fear, it is impossible to move on or think of anything else that what you are going through. You end up analyzing the situation in details, you start feeling vulnerable like you will never be safe again or have a normal life ever again. You might think you are doing yourself a favor but all you are doing is increase the pain and get stuck on what has already gone wrong. This can easily result in health problems such as depression, anxiety, and other mental conditions.
However, you can choose not to dwell on what has gone wrong and look at the bigger picture. Focus your attention on other things that are happening around you other than the problem. Doing so helps you realize that the situation could have been worse than it already is and this opens the positive aspects of your situation. When you reach here, you are able to see any available resources that you can use to solve the problem. The good thing about looking at the bigger picture of any situation is that you are able to stay positive and focus on what is still working even when everything seems to have fallen apart.
Engage in Entertaining Activities
Sometimes when everything seems to be too bad, you need to take a break by taking your mind off the situation. You can do something entertaining like reading an interesting book that will capture your thoughts, listen to music or watch an entertaining movie or short clips that will help put a smile on your face. When choosing an entertaining thing to do, avoid materials that are more likely to make you gloomy but instead settle for something that will make you feel motivated.
Be Grateful for What You Have
When things go wrong, it is easy to forget of all other good things that you have. If you have failed in business or have lost your job or a loved one, think of those people around you who are always there to support you. Losing yourself in grief might result in forgetting them and how much they care. Be grateful knowing that there is someone else out there who doesn’t have half of what you have. Such an attitude will help you move and get the strength to face the situation in a more positive manner.
Choose your Words Easily
Your choice of words has the power to either build or destroy those around you and even yourself. Each choice of words results in a different reaction, for instance, if someone tells you that you are wrong, you will react differently from when he tells you are lying. Using words such “I’m angry” and I’m furious” when you are slightly annoyed increase the intensity of your anger. If you are upset, you can say you are slightly annoyed instead of using the stronger words.
The same case applies when you are going through a difficult time. If you tell yourself that you can sail through that storm, your mind tunes that you are strong enough to overcome the situation. With this know-how, train yourself to stay positive things about yourself and your life every time you are going through difficult situations.
This turns you into a positive person making it easy for you to handle even the most difficult situations that come your way.
Change your Environment to Change Your State
Your environment can greatly affect your productivity and the way you view things. For this reason, you need to make sure that you are in a peaceful and supporting environment that will not only help you stay positive but also highly productive. If you want to remain positive throughout the day, you should start by managing your home.
From the moment you wake up, make sure you make your bed and clear the table and clean the utensils after taking breakfast. Draw the curtains to let in fresh air and sun rays if the weather allows. When you arrive at your workplace, ensure your workstation is in order.
Arrange your table, place all materials you require to finish your job in an orderly manner and get rid of all things you no longer need.
Try to maintain a smiling and happy face and good relationship with your colleagues. When the chance presents itself, help someone and this will automatically boost your energy levels and hence your positivity.
Also, make sure you speak positive words to those around you, they will not only have a positive impact on them but also in you.