It’s said everyone has a soul mate and all you have to do is find who it is.
However, if you ask you will hear many people say finding love in the midst of so many people is hard.
For those who have already found that one person meant to them, they can tell you how sweet life is.
If you fall under the category of those who haven’t yet found their one true love, you need to do something in order to attract that person.
Sometimes you might be looking too hard and in the wrong places when your one has all along been close to you. Use the following tips to attract your soul mate.
You attract your soul mate by believing in love
You can’t fall in love if you don’t believe in it in the first place.
You need to first believe in the existence of true love that nourishes you making you come for more.
Having this belief makes getting love a possible quest since you are aware of what you are looking for.
The only way to start believing in love is the elimination of thoughts that make you feel like you are not worthy to be loved or that you are not capable of showing love. The moment you are free of negative thoughts about love, love will grow in your heart and the more you believe in it, the stronger it grows to an extent of attracting your soul mate.
Happiness is contagious just like laughter. Staying happy helps increase the frequency of your vibration, in turn, attracting what you want. To stay happy, however, you have to learn how to stay focused on the positive things life has to offer. When you are happy, you attract someone who shares your belief in engaging in a healthy relationship.
Get Over your Past
There is no you can attract love if you are still clinging to your old relationship or you are hurting from what happened. If you get into a new relationship before you heal the wounds of the past, you will intoxicate the new relationship and it will die even before it starts. Making peace with your past helps you to move forward, be happy with life as it is now, and in the process, you end up attracting someone who is willing to walk the journey with you.
There are many things that could have gone wrong in your past relationship. For instance, you might have felt rejected which resulted in you rejecting yourself. In order to move on, you need to start feeling good about yourself and practicing self-love. Otherwise, no one is going to accept or love you if you feel always negative about yourself. Loving and treating yourself the way you would like others to love you will help the wounds heal and also other people will start accepting and loving you.
Visualize the Kind of a Soul Mate you Want
With the Law of Attraction, what you want is what you get, and when you want something, you think and talk about it often. Since you already have an ideal persona you are looking for in a partner, picture that person in your life, the kind of a relationship you want to have together, and the type of future you will build. You can take a further step of writing down the qualities you are looking and the type of a relationship you want to build with the person. Visualizing this and confessing it is likely going to make you attract the soul mate you want.
Stay Focused on What You Want
It is easy to get lost on the way when looking for a soul mate and end up settling for someone who doesn’t meet the qualities you are looking for. The truth is, it is hard to attract a soul mate if you are entertaining someone else at the same time. Do not get into a fake relationship hoping to hop out the moment you find your partner. Everyone has a soul mate out there but the universe works in such a way that you cannot find who it is when you are holding on to someone you are very sure is not meant to be. It is easy to fear to be lonely but it’s better than missing your soul mate while fooling around.
Many people have this belief that true happiness comes from finding a soul mate. This makes them put their life and happiness on hold and focus on searching for a partner. If you want to be in a happy relationship, you must learn how to be happy even before you find a partner. By the time he comes along, he won’t focus on cheering you up but you will both share your interest and learn to be happy together. If you think that you don’t deserve to be happy until a partner comes along, ask yourself whether you would be attracted to a gloomy person. The answer is no, and so no one is going to be attracted to you if you have a boring life.
Sometimes if you have been single for too long, it is possible to create your own little world where no one else is allowed. This results in pushing people away whenever anyone tries to get close to you. You need to declutter every aspect of your life, both mentally and physically such that you will be ready when your soul mate finally come along.
Summary - Be the Love you Hope to Receive
In most cases, people tend to treat us the way we treat ourselves. If you love yourself to the highest level and possess strong respect for yourself, the other person is going to treat you the same way.
Never settle for anything less than what you are looking for. Also, be cautious not to confuse lust for love. The other person is going to treat you with utmost love and respect if you hold yourself worthy of their love.
You can always depend on your intuition to tell whether the person you meet is the one or not.
If you don’t click the moment you meet or it feels like you are trying too hard to connect, then that’s not your soul mate.